One of the things that both fascinated and excited me after reading Marie Kondo’s Books was her assertion that once you “tidied up your life for good” you’d uncover or discover long-lost passions or your life’s purpose. In short: your life would change, beyond just having less stuff.
And after reading countless tales of Kondo’s clients who found themselves with different lives post-tidying, I stood with heart and arms open to whatever God would bring my way in the process.
Now that I’ve completed all tidying categories (plus re-visiting several and letting go of things continuously), life is indeed different; different in some of the most unexpected ways. Now that I’ve had time to absorb the process, it’s becoming very clear to me what exactly has changed and why it does indeed feel so magical. Here are my biggest 3:
Writing. Perhaps the most profound revelation I’ve had since tidying and simplifying is the desire to write again. I’ve written on and off in various forms for as long as I can remember. But I’ve realized as I’ve documented my tidying journey that writing is truly “what I want to do.” Like….in life. And honestly, that alone is a big enough revelation for me, especially since the entire past year has been about pursuing God and His purpose for my life.
And as I’ve begun to reflect on this, it’s quite remarkable. I think about imagery often
used by minimalists and those seeking simplification: that your real, big, purposeful, meaningful life is hidden under years of clutter-whether physical or mental or otherwise. This impacts me so because as I look back on my life, the desire to write has ALWAYS been there. I just meandered away from it, slowly, over time. I came back to it a few times, but I never realized that perhaps this is what I’m meant to do until now.
I used to journal and write poems as a kid, tween and angsty teen. I was on the newspaper staff in high school. When I first declared my major in college, it was journalism/communications. As a young adult, writing has always been a major outlet for me. I’ve always had a vague desire to write a book.
Let me be clear that I regret NOTHING about the decisions I made in life… including changing majors to business/marketing, getting an MBA, and all the jobs and skills I’ve learned since graduating. I am so thankful and grateful for the way this life has unfolded and I can see that the experiences God led me to are proving invaluable to me now.
And today…life is different; it is changed. I started this blog and write on it frequently. It keeps me accountable and grounded and challenged. I have started writing a book. I recently submitted an article to one of my favorite websites about simplifying life, and it was approved to be published. The feeling of pursuing and doing what you love is completely magical. In a way, none of this *should* be a surprise. And yet, to my soul, it is. It’s a lovely, beautiful, God-given surprise and I am so humbled and grateful for it.
Photography. Another life-changing bit of magic that has become very clear and taken me off-guard is a desire to learn photography. After writing about letting go of sentimental items, I was thinking about my love for pictures; how being transported back to an event or place through pictures has always been one of my deepest joys in life. And while I love capturing moments with friends and loved ones, I have always had a special affinity for the beauty of God’s creation. Among my favorite things to photograph are the ocean, beach, sky, trees and flowers. As I’ve worked on this blog and chosen background images for quote graphics, I’ve been selecting from nature shots I have been taking for years. Countless sunsets (and a few sunrises!), ocean and water shots, close ups of the beach, of flowers, of the sky through the trees and mountains and cliffs and pathways have been captured over the years.
Just like writing, I suppose it shouldn’t be a surprise that I want to take a photography class, but the fact remains that I could not see it until now. I am pleased to report that I (along with a friend!) have signed up to take an intro to photography class in May and I can’t wait!
Art. I started taking adult art classes well before my tidying journey began. However, it has also emerged as a possible area of focus for the future. My favorite thing to paint is (you guessed it) nature. I love painting photos that I took while on vacation or visiting somewhere new and beautiful. That makes the idea of learning photography even more exciting! I’m not sure where art will take me, though I’ve had the notion to open an Etsy shop someday, possibly even as a joint venture with my fabulously talented and artistic mother. In any case, it’s another wonderful and intriguing idea that God has planted in my mind now that I’m making an effort to live simply enough to hear it.
I think all of these things feel so magical because I am realizing that they’ve always been a part of me. They are utterly life-changing because I now have the time, space and energy to pursue them. There is no part of me that feels sad that I haven’t focused on them until now; I know that God’s timing is perfect and I wouldn’t trade His path for me for anything.
I’m excited to continue challenging myself, letting go, simplifying possessions, habits, thoughts and anything else that God shows me. Ultimately, He will get the glory for anything that I accomplish, and I know that He will use me in whatever ways He sees fit to better His Kingdom. My prayer is that I remain open and willing. Cheers to simplicity!